You are not selfish for choosing peace. In this reflection, Tawnia Lives reframes self-protection as self-respect — reminding us that healthy boundaries honor both love and balance.
You are not selfish for protecting your peace.
You are not cruel for setting boundaries.
You are not wrong for choosing yourself.
Love, respect, and emotional labor should never rest on your shoulders alone.
They should be shared. Honored. Reciprocated.
You deserve to stand in your own worth—without guilt.
— Tawnia Lives
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